My boyfriend and I have been together for half a year, he’s not in a rush to have sex, but we’re already trying. When we’re out together and maybe kissing, it’s great and I get wet. But when we get home and it’s about to get down to business, I’m suddenly dry and he can’t even get a finger inside me, let alone a penis. It makes me sad, is this normal? (Niky, 20 years old)
Niky, it’s probably because you’re a little afraid of it in your subconscious. But that doesn’t matter at all. Try some lubricant in the beginning and you will see that it will get better and better and you will enjoy sex with your partner. You have to really relax and everything will work itself out. Mainly calm and no nerves. If that doesn’t help, you can try sex in nature. He also has his charm.
