Recently, a photo of Zhang Liang’s son Tian Tian and a female classmate was reported on the Internet, triggering rumors of a relationship between the two. In response, Zhang Liang also responded, saying, “It is normal for adolescent children of this age to have a favorable impression of the opposite sex, but there must be a limit.” At the same time, he also said, “As a father, I strongly condemn those who are on the Internet. In the cyber violence against two underage children, every step of the child’s growth is a major event, and these events will have a great impact on their future. We adults must protect every child well, and the premise of educating children is to respect , understand and guide.”
Full text of Zhang Liang:
I remember when I was in junior high school in 1996, we were a group of boys playing basketball on the playground between classes. Occasionally, girls would always come over to deliver water to other male students. At first I thought it was a supply task assigned by the class, but later I found out that it was a gift. I was very moved in my heart. Although I was coaxing along with other male classmates at the time, to be honest, I was still a little envious… In fact, it is normal for adolescent children of this age to have a favorable impression of the opposite sex, but there must be a limit. scope.
As parents, we must constantly urge children to study hard and maintain a healthy body. At the same time, children’s psychological understanding and psychological counseling cannot be ignored! Or the big truth: what age should do what age should do! The most important thing for a child now is to study, step by step to build his own future, and other things should be placed after study. When something happens to a child at any age, we, as parents, will understand clearly one by one, whether he has gone out of the circle, whether he has caused harm to others, whether he has learned any lessons and reflections, and how to set the right direction in the next step so that They experience for themselves what is right and wrong about their life in everything they experience!
But as a father, I strongly condemn the cyber violence against two underage children on the Internet. Every step of the child’s growth is a major event, and these things will have a great impact on their future. We adults must protect every child, and the premise of educating children is respect, understanding and guidance. After all, we have all grown up from children to today. We should also understand and appreciate the psychological state of children at this age. The effect will be slower, but what I want is the understanding and acceptance of the child’s heart, not the mouth. Temporary “software”. In the end, if there is a problem in the growth of our child, we will pay close attention to it as soon as possible, and strive to guide education in a good direction!
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Original title: Zhang Liang responded to the rumors of love every day: the premise of educating children is respect and understanding
Responsible editor: Li Xiaoling
