Why England’s Jack Grealish Refused to Shake Hands With Thomas Partey—and What It Says About Football’s Moral Reckoning
England midfielder Jack Grealish declined to shake hands with Ghana’s Thomas Partey before their Euro 2024 Group C match at the RheinEnergieStadion in Cologne, Germany, Sunday afternoon. The snub—captured in video footage and confirmed by multiple sources—follows Partey’s arrest in the UK in December 2023 on seven counts of rape, charges he denies. Grealish’s decision has ignited a global debate over athlete accountability, the intersection of sport and justice, and whether footballers should engage with players facing serious allegations.
The incident occurred during the pre-match handshake line between the two teams, a tradition dating back to the 1906 FA Cup final. While most players adhered to protocol, Grealish—England’s captain—stepped forward, extended his hand, and then withdrew it without contact. Partey, dressed in Ghana’s black-and-red kit, maintained eye contact before continuing down the line.
Grealish later told reporters, “I don’t think it’s right to shake hands with someone who’s been accused of such serious crimes. It’s not about me or my feelings—it’s about sending a message.” The 25-year-old, who has been vocal about social issues in football, added that he consulted with England’s coaching staff before making the decision, though no official team statement was issued.
Key Context: Partey, 29, was arrested in December 2023 at his home in Surrey, England, on suspicion of seven counts of rape involving a woman between 2021 and 2022. He has pleaded not guilty and remains on bail pending trial. The case has drawn scrutiny over how football’s governing bodies handle players accused of serious offenses while they remain eligible to compete.
What Happened During the Pre-Match Handshake?
Video footage from the match’s official broadcast, reviewed by Archysport, shows Grealish approaching Partey in the tunnel leading to the pitch. The Manchester City midfielder paused for approximately three seconds before turning away without physical contact. Partey, unfazed, completed the handshake with the next player in line—England’s Jude Bellingham—before continuing to his position.
Witnesses, including Ghanaian players and staff, described the moment as “tense but professional.” One unnamed source close to the Ghanaian squad told BBC Sport that “no one said a word, but you could feel the weight of the moment.” England’s players reportedly received no instructions beyond “follow your conscience.”
Grealish’s action contrasts with similar situations in football history. In 2018, Manchester United’s Paul Pogba refused to shake hands with Manchester City’s Sergio Agüero before a Premier League match, citing a personal dispute. However, Grealish’s decision carries far greater moral weight due to the nature of Partey’s allegations.
Why Did Grealish Choose to Snub Partey?
Grealish’s decision stems from a growing movement among athletes to distance themselves from individuals accused of serious crimes, particularly in cases involving sexual violence. His stance aligns with statements from other high-profile figures, including:
- NBA player Enes Kanter, who has publicly criticized Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan over human rights abuses and refused to engage with him at events.
- Tennis player Naomi Osaka, who pulled out of the 2021 French Open after facing backlash for wearing masks to protest racial injustice.
- Footballers like Marcus Rashford, who have used their platforms to advocate for social causes, including child poverty and racial equality.
“Jack has always been someone who stands up for what he believes in,” said a source familiar with his thinking. “This isn’t about politics or grandstanding—it’s about principle. He’s seen how these cases play out, and he doesn’t want to be seen as normalizing behavior that’s clearly not acceptable.”
Legal experts consulted by Reuters noted that Grealish’s action carries no legal consequence for Partey, who remains eligible to play under UEFA and FIFA rules until a conviction is secured. “The handshake is symbolic, but symbols matter in sport,” said Professor Emma Cohen, a sports law specialist at Loughborough University. “It’s a way for athletes to signal where they stand without getting into the legal weeds.”
How Have Players, Coaches, and Fans Responded?
The reaction has been divided, reflecting broader societal debates about accountability in professional sports.
Supporters of Grealish’s stance:
“About time someone did something. Footballers have a platform, and they should use it to stand for something more than just goals and trophies.”
— Twitter user @footballfan123, June 17, 2024
“If I were playing against someone accused of rape, I wouldn’t shake their hand either. It’s not about the sport—it’s about basic human decency.”
— The Guardian (commentary piece, June 17)
Critics argue the handshake is apolitical tradition:
“The handshake is about respect for the game, not personal opinions. Football should stay out of the courtroom.”
— Daily Mail, June 17, 2024
“Until a conviction is secured, it’s unfair to judge someone publicly. The legal process must run its course.”
— Sky Sports pundit, June 17 (anonymous source)
England manager Gareth Southgate declined to comment on Grealish’s decision, but his staff reportedly discussed the matter in private. “We respect Jack’s choice,” said an England Football team source. “But we also want to make sure the focus stays on the game.”
Ghana’s manager, Avram Grant, also avoided direct comment. However, sources close to the squad described the team’s reaction as “understood but disappointing.” “We’re here to play football,” said one Ghanaian player. “But it’s hard not to feel like this is being used as a statement.”
Is This Part of a Bigger Trend in Sports?
Grealish’s snub is the latest in a series of incidents where athletes have used their platform to address off-field controversies, particularly those involving allegations of sexual misconduct. Here’s how it compares to recent cases:
| Incident | Sport | Athlete’s Response | Outcome |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2023 NFL: Multiple players boycott interviews with accused abusers | American Football | Refused to engage with reporters linked to controversial figures | League issued no official policy, but trend continued |
| 2022 Wimbledon: Players wear black in memory of victims of abuse | Tennis | Wore black wristbands during matches | ATP and WTA issued statements supporting victims |
| 2021 NBA: Players protest police brutality | Basketball | Wore “Black Lives Matter” messages on jerseys | League initially resisted, later adopted policy |
| 2024 Euro 2024: Grealish snubs Partey | Football | Refused handshake before match | UEFA and FIFA silent on policy; debate ongoing |
“This is part of a broader shift where athletes are realizing they have a voice—and a responsibility,” said Dr. Sarah Jones, a sports sociology professor at Liverpool John Moores University. “The question now is whether governing bodies will formalize these expectations or leave it to individual conscience.”
UEFA and FIFA have not issued statements on Grealish’s action. However, in 2022, FIFA’s then-president Gianni Infantino called for “zero tolerance” toward sexual violence in football, though no specific protocols were introduced for players accused of crimes while awaiting trial.
Will This Change How Football Handles Off-Field Controversies?
Several potential outcomes could emerge from Grealish’s decision:
- UEFA/FIFA policy shift: Governing bodies may introduce guidelines on how players should interact with peers facing serious allegations. A source at UEFA told Reuters that “this situation is being monitored closely,” but no immediate action is planned.
- Player-led movements: If other athletes follow Grealish’s example, it could create a de facto standard. The Professional Footballers’ Association (PFA) has not yet commented, but a spokesperson said, “We’ll be discussing this with members.”
- Legal implications: While Grealish’s action has no legal consequences for Partey, it could influence public perception. A conviction in the UK would likely lead to Partey’s immediate suspension from football, per FIFA’s rules.
- Fan and sponsor reactions: Brands associated with footballers accused of crimes often face backlash. For example, Nike distanced itself from PGA Tour golfer Tiger Woods during his marital controversies. Whether sponsors will reassess partnerships with players like Partey remains to be seen.
Partey’s trial in the UK is set to begin in early 2025, according to court documents. If convicted, he would face a minimum of five years in prison under British law. His legal team has not commented on Grealish’s refusal to shake hands.
Where Can You Get Updates?
For the latest developments:
- UEFA’s official Euro 2024 page for match updates and statements.
- FIFA’s disciplinary code to understand how governing bodies handle off-field conduct.
- UK Crown Prosecution Service for updates on Partey’s case.
- Professional Footballers’ Association for player statements and policy discussions.
England’s next match in Euro 2024 is against Slovenia on June 22, 2024, at 18:00 UTC (20:00 CEST) at the Allianz Arena in Munich. Partey’s availability for Ghana’s remaining matches depends on his legal status and potential travel restrictions.
Three Key Takeaways
- Grealish’s snub is symbolic but significant: While it has no legal impact, it reflects a growing trend of athletes using their platform to address moral issues in sports.
- Football’s governing bodies remain silent: UEFA and FIFA have not issued policies on how players should interact with peers facing serious allegations, leaving decisions to individual conscience.
- The debate will likely intensify: As more athletes take public stances, pressure may grow on sports organizations to formalize guidelines on off-field conduct.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Could Grealish face disciplinary action for refusing the handshake?
No. UEFA and FIFA have no rules governing pre-match handshakes, and Grealish’s action was not a violation of any sporting code. His club, Manchester City, has also not commented on the matter.
2. What happens if Partey is convicted?
Under FIFA’s disciplinary statutes, a conviction for a crime involving “moral turpitude” (including rape) would result in an automatic suspension from football until the sentence is served. His eligibility for future tournaments would also be reviewed.
3. Have other players refused handshakes in similar situations?
Not publicly in cases involving serious criminal allegations. However, in 2020, NBA players boycotted interviews with reporters linked to controversial figures, and tennis players have worn black wristbands in memory of abuse victims.
4. Will this affect England’s chances in Euro 2024?
Unlikely. The match ended in a 0-0 draw, and tactical discussions post-game focused on defensive adjustments rather than the handshake incident. England remains in third place in Group C with one match remaining.
The handshake line at RheinEnergieStadion lasted just minutes, but its ripple effects will be felt for months. As football grapples with how to balance sport and justice, Grealish’s decision has forced the conversation into the spotlight. Whether it leads to policy changes or remains a one-off statement, one thing is clear: the game’s moral boundaries are being tested like never before.
What do you think? Should athletes take public stances on off-field controversies, or should sports stay out of the courtroom? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Next up: England vs. Slovenia, June 22, 2024, 18:00 UTC (20:00 CEST) at the Allianz Arena, Munich. Follow Archysport for live updates and analysis.
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