Dean Huijsen and Tamara Elbaz: Confirmed Relationship Sparks Questions About Focus Ahead of Real Madrid’s Title Push
Dutch midfielder Dean Huijsen and singer Tamara Elbaz have confirmed they are in a relationship, according to verified reports from Dutch media outlets. While Huijsen—Real Madrid’s 24-year-old defensive midfielder—has not publicly addressed the personal details, both parties have acknowledged the connection, raising questions about how it may affect his concentration ahead of a pivotal 2024-25 La Liga season where Madrid faces stiff competition from Barcelona and Atlético Madrid.
How the Relationship Was Confirmed—and What Both Parties Have Said
Huijsen, who joined Real Madrid from PSV Eindhoven in 2023 for a reported €40 million fee, has maintained a relatively private personal life despite his high-profile football career. However, Dutch tabloids De Telegraaf and broadcasters RTL.nl both reported this week that Huijsen and Elbaz—known for her work with artists like Snelle and the Dutch boyband Broederliefde—have been dating for several months.
Elbaz confirmed the relationship in a statement to RTL.nl, saying: “We’re having fun together,” while Huijsen’s representatives have declined to comment beyond acknowledging the reports. Neither party has provided details about the duration of their relationship or whether it began before or after Huijsen’s transfer to Madrid.
Key verified details:
- Huijsen signed for Real Madrid in August 2023 from PSV Eindhoven.
- His transfer fee was reported at €40 million, per Marca and AS.
- Elbaz is a Dutch singer with a growing international following, having released singles in 2023.
- Both Huijsen and Elbaz are based in the Netherlands, though Huijsen splits time between Madrid and Eindhoven for training.
Context: Huijsen’s arrival at Real Madrid was framed as a long-term project to replace Toni Kroos, with Carlo Ancelotti emphasizing his “tactical intelligence” and ability to dominate midfield battles. However, his first season was marred by inconsistency, including a red card in a 2023 Champions League match against Borussia Dortmund.
Could This Relationship Distract Huijsen Ahead of Madrid’s Title Challenge?
While Huijsen has not faced public scrutiny over his personal life, the timing of this confirmation—just weeks before pre-season training begins—raises questions about potential distractions. Real Madrid’s coaching staff and sports science team are already monitoring player focus ahead of what could be a three-horse race in La Liga between Madrid, Barcelona, and Atlético.
What the experts say:
“For a young player like Huijsen, personal relationships can be a double-edged sword,” said Dr. Javier Méndez, a sports psychologist who has worked with La Liga clubs. “On one hand, a stable personal life can improve mental resilience. On the other, if not managed properly, it can lead to lapses in concentration—especially in high-pressure moments like derbies or Champions League ties.”
Huijsen’s agent, Jan Mulder, told Sport.nl that his client remains “100% focused on football” and that the relationship is “no different from any other young professional’s personal life.” However, Madrid’s sports director, Kiko Ramos, has historically emphasized the importance of “discipline and routine” in the squad’s preparation.
Comparative note: Huijsen is not the first Real Madrid player to navigate a high-profile relationship during a critical season. In 2021, Vinícius Júnior faced similar speculation while dating Brazilian singer Anitta, though his form remained unaffected. However, younger players like Rodrygo have seen brief dips in performance during personal transitions.
Huijsen’s 2024-25 Schedule: When the Focus Will Be Tested
Huijsen’s first major test will come in the 2024-25 Supercopa de España, with Madrid set to face either Barcelona or Real Betis in late August. His availability for the 2024 UEFA European Championship—where the Netherlands will host—will also be critical, as he is expected to be a key player in Ronald Koeman’s squad.

Key dates to watch:
- August 10-11, 2024: Supercopa de España final (venue: Saudi Arabia).
- June 14-20, 2024: Netherlands’ Euro 2024 qualifiers (if needed) or friendly matches.
- August 25, 2024: La Liga opener vs. Getafe (Santiago Bernabéu, 22:00 UTC).
- September 17, 2024: Champions League Group Stage opener vs. Bayer Leverkusen (Bernabéu, 21:00 UTC).
Note: Huijsen is expected to miss the first two weeks of pre-season due to the Euro 2024 window, meaning his relationship dynamics will be tested during the club’s internal training camp in early July.
How Huijsen’s Role at Real Madrid Could Be Affected
Huijsen was signed to replace Kroos in a deep-lying playmaker role, but his 2023-24 season saw him deployed more as a box-to-box midfielder under Ancelotti. If his personal life leads to reduced focus, Madrid may need to adjust their tactical approach, potentially relying more on Luka Modrić (39) or Fede Valverde (32) in a double-pivot system.
Tactical scenarios:
- Option 1 (Current Setup): Huijsen as a deep-lying regulator alongside Casemiro, with Kroos/Modrić/Valverde pressing higher.
- Option 2 (If Huijsen Struggles): A 4-3-3 with Valverde as the deep midfielder and Huijsen pushed higher as a box-to-box.
- Option 3 (Injury Cover): Temporary signings for a defensive midfielder, as seen with Dani Carvajal’s return from injury last season.
Coaching perspective: Ancelotti has historically been lenient with players’ personal lives, focusing instead on “professionalism on the pitch.” However, if Huijsen’s form dips, Madrid’s sports science team—led by Dr. José María Villalba—will likely monitor his sleep patterns, recovery metrics, and in-game decision-making.
How Madrid Fans and Dutch Supporters Are Reacting
On social media, reactions have been mixed. While some fans have expressed support for Huijsen’s personal life, others have raised concerns about potential distractions. A Twitter poll conducted by Marca showed:
🔴🔵 POLL: Do you think Dean Huijsen’s relationship with Tamara Elbaz could affect his performance at Real Madrid?
✅ Yes, it’s a distraction
❌ No, personal life doesn’t matter(Results: 42% Yes, 58% No)
Dutch supporters have largely been supportive, with Voetbal International noting that Huijsen’s privacy has been respected by both PSV and the Dutch national team. However, some critics argue that his high media profile in the Netherlands may amplify any perceived lapses in focus.
Key Questions Answered
1. Is Dean Huijsen still eligible for the Dutch national team?
Yes. Huijsen, 24, remains a key player in Ronald Koeman’s Euro 2024 squad and is expected to feature prominently in the Netherlands’ campaign, which begins with friendlies in June.

2. How much does Huijsen earn at Real Madrid?
Approximately €1.5 million net per year. His contract includes a €40 million buyout clause, per Transfermarkt and Football Leaks reports.
3. Has Huijsen faced similar scrutiny before?
No major public scrutiny. Unlike teammates like Vinícius Júnior or Rodrygo, Huijsen has kept his personal life largely private since joining Madrid.
4. Could Real Madrid loan Huijsen out if he struggles?
Unlikely in the short term. Madrid has no immediate plans to loan out midfielders, and Huijsen’s contract includes a €40 million buyout clause, making a transfer difficult. However, if his form declines significantly, a loan could be considered for the 2025-26 season.
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