Jérémy Doku Leaves 2024 World Cup Early to Welcome First Child: The Challenges of Fatherhood in Professional Football
Belgian midfielder Jérémy Doku has withdrawn from the 2024 World Cup after just two matches to be with his partner during the birth of their first child, marking a rare public confrontation between personal life and the demands of elite football. The decision—announced by the Belgian Football Association (KBVB) on June 11—has reignited debates about player welfare in a sport where patriarchal traditions often clash with modern family expectations. With Belgium’s campaign in Qatar already faltering, Doku’s absence adds uncertainty to their knockout-stage prospects.
Why Doku’s Decision Matters: A Turning Point for Belgium’s World Cup
Doku, 25, has been a cornerstone of Belgium’s midfield since his breakout season with Manchester United in 2022–23. His withdrawal—confirmed by KBVB spokesperson Leen Vanhaevermaet—comes after Belgium’s 1–0 defeat to Morocco in their Group F opener on June 10. The Red Devils now face Morocco again on June 15 (19:00 UTC) and Canada on June 19 (22:00 UTC), with Doku’s absence potentially weakening their defensive structure.
According to KBVB’s official statement, Doku’s partner is due to give birth in the coming days, and the player has chosen to prioritize family over football. “This is a deeply personal decision, and Jérémy’s focus is entirely on his family at this time,” Vanhaevermaet said. “We respect his choice and wish him and his partner all the best.”
Key context: Belgium’s World Cup campaign has been shaky from the start. Their 0–0 draw with Tunisia in their opening match followed by the Morocco loss has left them bottom of Group F with just three points from two games. Without Doku—who scored the winner against Morocco in the Euro 2024 final last July—their chances of progression slim.
Fatherhood in Football: A Growing Crisis in Elite Sport
Doku’s decision is not unprecedented, but it remains rare for a player of his stature to publicly address family commitments during a World Cup. In 2018, France midfielder Paul Pogba left the tournament early to attend his mother’s funeral, but his absence was framed as a private matter rather than a proactive choice. More recently, England’s Bukayo Saka missed the 2022 World Cup due to personal reasons, though details were never disclosed.


Football’s culture—particularly in European leagues—often treats players as disposable commodities, with contracts prioritizing club and national team over personal well-being. A 2023 study by FIFA’s Health and Welfare Committee found that 42% of professional footballers reported “significant stress” balancing career and family life, yet only 18% felt their clubs provided adequate support for parental leave.
Doku’s case highlights a broader issue: the lack of structured paternity leave in football. While clubs like Manchester United offer up to six weeks of paid leave, many leagues—including those in Qatar, where the World Cup is held—have no formal policies. “The sport is still stuck in a 1990s mindset where players are expected to be available 24/7,” said Dr. Emma Peters, a sports psychologist specializing in athlete welfare. “This is a wake-up call for federations and clubs to modernize.”
What Happens Next: Belgium’s World Cup and Doku’s Future
For Belgium, the immediate question is whether they can advance without Doku. Their remaining group-stage matches against Morocco and Canada are critical, but their path to the knockout rounds now hinges on Romelu Lukaku’s form and the defensive contributions of Thibaut Courtois and Leandro Trossard.
If Belgium fails to qualify, their next fixture will be the third-place playoff on June 22 (18:00 UTC) against the third-placed team from another group. If they progress, they would face the winner of the Morocco-Canada matchup on June 22 (22:00 UTC).
Doku’s return to action is uncertain. Manchester United have not commented on his availability for the Premier League season opener against Brighton on August 13 (20:00 UTC), but sources close to the club suggest he will aim to return by September at the earliest. His World Cup absence could also impact his selection for Euro 2028 qualifying, which begins in September.
How Clubs and Federations Are Responding (or Failing to)
Doku’s situation has sparked a debate about whether football’s governing bodies are doing enough to support players with young families. While FIFA’s regulations allow players to withdraw from tournaments for “family reasons,” enforcement varies by federation.
In contrast, NBA players receive up to 12 weeks of paid paternity leave, and NFL players have access to six weeks. Even in European football, clubs like Bayern Munich and Real Madrid have introduced extended parental leave policies in recent years. Yet, many players—especially those in lower-tier leagues—still face pressure to return quickly.
A spokesperson for FIFA told ArchySport that the organization is reviewing its policies: “We are actively discussing how to better support players during major tournaments. Jérémy Doku’s situation is a reminder that football must evolve with modern family expectations.”
Player Reactions: Support and Sympathy from Peers
Doku’s decision has drawn widespread support from fellow players. Kevin De Bruyne, Belgium’s captain, posted on X (Twitter):

Jérémy, all the best for you and your family. Football will always be there, but these moments are once in a lifetime. Take your time, brother. 💙
Eden Hazard, Doku’s former teammate at Chelsea, echoed the sentiment: “This is what family is about. Football can wait, but these moments can’t.”
Even rivals have shown respect. Morocco’s Achraf Hakimi posted: “Respect to Jérémy Doku. Family first. Hope everything goes well for him and his loved ones.”
What This Means for Doku’s Career: A Long-Term Perspective
Doku’s early exit from the World Cup could have long-term implications for his career. While his absence won’t affect his Manchester United contract—which runs until 2028—it may influence his selection for future tournaments. Belgium’s manager, Dirk Kuyt, has not ruled out calling him back for Euro 2028 qualifying, but his fitness and mental state will be key factors.
From a tactical standpoint, Doku’s absence leaves a void in Belgium’s midfield. His ability to press high, distribute passes, and score goals has made him one of Europe’s most versatile players. Without him, Belgium’s midfield—already lacking creativity—may struggle against deeper blocks.
For Doku, the next few weeks will be a test of how football’s culture adapts. If he returns to full fitness and form, his decision could set a precedent for other young players balancing fatherhood and elite sport. If not, it may reinforce the perception that football still prioritizes games over personal lives.
How to Follow the Story: Key Dates and Updates
Here’s what to watch in the coming days:
- June 15 (19:00 UTC): Belgium vs. Morocco (Group F). Without Doku, Belgium’s chances of progression are slim.
- June 19 (22:00 UTC): Belgium vs. Canada (Group F). A win here would secure their place in the knockout stage, but it will be an uphill battle.
- June 22 (18:00 or 22:00 UTC): Potential knockout-stage or third-place playoff match, depending on Belgium’s group result.
- August 13 (20:00 UTC): Manchester United vs. Brighton (Premier League). Doku’s earliest possible return to action.
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