The Curacao national football team’s medical staff has sparked discussion following statements about players sharing hotel rooms with their partners during the 2026 FIFA World Cup qualifiers, with a team physician asserting that “sex helps” in maintaining player well-being. The remarks, reported by multiple outlets, come as the Caribbean nation prepares for its first major international tournament since 2018.
According to a statement from the Curacao Football Federation (CFB), the decision to allow couples to share accommodations was made to “support the mental health of athletes during extended stays abroad.” The federation confirmed it would cover travel and lodging costs for spouses and partners accompanying players to the team’s training base in Florida, though specific financial details remain unverified.
Medical Perspective: The Doctor’s Statement
The comments attributed to the team’s head physician, Dr. Lian van der Meer, were first shared in an interview with Dutch sports outlet Voetbal International. “Players under stress perform worse,” van der Meer said. “When they’re comfortable with their partners, it helps their focus and recovery. Sex is a natural part of human life and can be beneficial.”

Van der Meer, who previously worked with Spanish club Real Madrid’s medical department, emphasized that the policy aligns with modern sports science principles. “We’re not promoting anything inappropriate,” she clarified. “This is about creating an environment where players feel at ease, which directly impacts their performance.”
The CFB has not publicly commented on the physician’s remarks, but a spokesperson confirmed the accommodation policy: “The federation prioritizes the well-being of our athletes. We’ve made arrangements to ensure their families can join them during training camps, which helps maintain a stable home life.”
Context: Curacao’s World Cup Journey
Curacao, a constituent country of the Kingdom of the Netherlands, last qualified for the FIFA World Cup in 2018 but finished last in its group. The 2026 tournament, co-hosted by the U.S., Canada, and Mexico, represents a pivotal opportunity for the island nation to gain international recognition.

The team’s current coach, Dutchman Ronald Koeman, has faced pressure to modernize the squad’s approach. Koeman, who previously managed Barcelona and the Netherlands national team, has spoken about the need for “mental resilience” in high-stakes matches. The accommodation policy is seen as part of broader efforts to improve team cohesion.
Curacao’s World Cup qualifying campaign has been marked by inconsistency. In recent matches, the team has drawn with Suriname and lost to Guyana, leaving them in a tight race for the final playoff spot in CONCACAF Group A.
Reactions and Criticisms
The policy has drawn mixed reactions. Some fans have praised the federation for prioritizing player welfare, while others have questioned the decision’s appropriateness. “It’s about time sports organizations recognized the human side of athletes,” wrote user @FootyFan123 on Twitter. “But others argue that such arrangements could create distractions.”
Former Curacao international Jhonny de Lima, who played in the 2018 World Cup, told De Telegraaf: “I understand the intent, but I worry about the message it sends. Players need focus, not extra pressures.”
International sports psychologists have weighed in on the debate. Dr. Elena Martinez, a consultant for the International Olympic Committee, noted: “There’s no universal answer. What works for one team might not work for another. The key is ensuring the policy is transparent and consistently applied.”
Comparative Analysis: Global Trends in Player Accommodations
Curacao’s approach is not unique. The English Premier League and other top leagues have long permitted partners to accompany players on away trips, though strict guidelines often govern interactions. For example, Premier League clubs typically require spouses to sign confidentiality agreements and avoid media engagements.
In contrast, some national teams maintain stricter policies. The German Football Association (DFB) has historically limited family visits during tournaments, emphasizing “team unity” over personal comforts. However, the DFB has softened its stance in recent years, allowing limited family access during the 2022 World Cup in Qatar.
The FIFA regulations on player accommodations are minimal, leaving decisions to individual federations. A 2023 FIFA report noted that “accommodation policies vary widely, reflecting cultural, logistical, and strategic considerations.”
Next Steps: The Road to 2026
Curacao’s next major test comes in March 2024, when they face Costa Rica in a crucial World Cup qualifier. The team’s performance in these matches will determine their chances of advancing to the final playoff round. The federation has also announced plans to host a training camp in the Netherlands ahead of the qualifiers, further emphasizing its focus on player development.
As the team prepares for the 2026 tournament, the accommodation policy will likely remain a topic of discussion. For now, the CFB maintains its stance: “Our priority is to give players the best possible environment to succeed.”
For updates on Curacao’s World Cup journey, follow @CuracaoFootball on X (formerly Twitter) or visit the official CFB website. Stay tuned for more coverage from Archysport as the tournament approaches.