Shifting the Blame: A year of Reckoning for Male Perpetrators of Gender-Based Violence
The year 2024 began with the shocking conviction of football star Dani Alves for rape and ended with the sentencing of French septuagenarian Dominique Pelicot for orchestrating the rape of his wife, Gisèle. These high-profile cases, while horrifying, illuminated a crucial shift in the fight against gender-based violence: a focus on holding male perpetrators accountable.this year saw the powerful slogans “I believe you, sister” and “Let shame change sides” gain traction, reflecting the feminist movement’s determination to center the conversation on the men responsible for these acts. The former offered vital support to survivors who bravely spoke out, while the latter directly challenged the aggressors, demanding they confront their actions.Gisèle Pelicot’s own request for this slogan to be adopted globally, echoed by the young journalist who accused former Catalunya Ràdio director Saül Gordillo, underscored its resonance.
feminists are unequivocal: tackling violence against women requires addressing the root cause – toxic masculinity. Changing women’s behavior or appearance is not the solution; the focus must be on dismantling the societal structures that enable and perpetuate male violence.
Journalist and gender expert Isabel Muntané, co-author of You are an exaggerator, believes the justice served in Gisèle Pelicot’s case is a step in the right direction. She highlights the stark contrast between the aggressors’ attempts to remain hidden and the “arrogant attitudes” displayed by some perpetrators who face prosecution. Muntané argues that the shift in blame must extend beyond the legal realm, demanding a broader social response that shames and isolates aggressors.
She criticizes the continued platform given to convicted individuals like Saül Gordillo, who maintains an opinion column despite his conviction. Muntané emphasizes the need for consequences that extend beyond legal penalties, stating, “They need to feel that the community also blames them, if they can’t pay bail or get out of prison early, as happened with Alves.”
alba F. Pous, director of the plural masculinities center at Barcelona City Council, echoes this sentiment, noting that perpetrators often feel unpunished if they evade consequences. she stresses the importance of social recognition for victims, enabling them to heal and recover from the trauma inflicted upon them.
Pous highlights the work done at Plural, a center that supports men seeking to change and embrace healthy masculinity.While the focus is on these individuals, Pous emphasizes that all treatments are grounded in a feminist viewpoint. This means rejecting the narrative that men are victims of patriarchy and instead emphasizing personal responsibility for actions and behavior.
The center’s approach prioritizes respect for the victim throughout the restitution process. Pous underscores the reality that while “not all men” are perpetrators,the vast majority of assaults are committed by men. This raises a crucial question: why don’t more men actively challenge and prevent violence against women?
The year 2024 has been a year of reckoning, marking a notable shift in the fight against gender-based violence. By centering the conversation on male accountability and dismantling the structures that enable their actions, we can create a future where “Let shame change sides” becomes a reality, not just a slogan.
Understanding the Roots of Sexist Aggression
What drives sexist attacks? Sociologist Paco Abril, a gender and masculinities expert at the University of Girona and founder of Equal Men, points to a desire for power and control over women. He believes a “reverse Me Too” movement,where men publicly acknowledge past instances of violence,could be a powerful tool for restorative justice. However, Abril acknowledges that few men identify with overt abusers and encourages them to take a proactive role in calling out sexist behavior among friends and family.
The feminist movement’s success in challenging male violence has unfortunately triggered a backlash. Journalist and activist Marta Pous warns of the emergence of “rebound teenagers” who embrace the denialist rhetoric of the far-right, feeling increasingly alienated by feminism.
The fight against sexist violence requires a multi-pronged approach involving government initiatives, educational institutions, and families. Experts like Muntané, head of Plural, emphasize the crucial role of comprehensive sex education starting from infancy.
While feminism has undoubtedly made strides in addressing the impunity surrounding male violence, it has also placed a disproportionate burden on women. They are often judged based on their clothing, behavior, and even their level of intoxication, essentially being held responsible for preventing their own victimization. This pressure to be the “perfect victim” is further compounded by the expectation to formally report assaults, while together facing scrutiny for enduring the abuse or remaining silent.
It’s crucial to remember that ther is no single profile of either victims or perpetrators of sexist violence. Recognizing this complexity is essential for developing effective prevention and intervention strategies.
Seeking Help: 24-Hour Hotlines for Sexist violence
Remember, you are not alone. Numerous organizations offer confidential support and resources for individuals experiencing sexist violence. 24-hour hotlines provide a safe space to talk, access information, and receive guidance.
Seeking Help: Confidential Resources for Gender-Based Violence
Experiencing gender-based violence can be incredibly isolating. It’s crucial to remember that you’re not alone and there are resources available to provide support and guidance.
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Is 2024 the Year the Tide Turns Against Gender-Based Violence?
The past year has witnessed a seismic shift in the conversation surrounding gender-based violence.
High-profile cases, like the convictions of Dani Alves and Dominique Pelicot, have thrust the issue into the harsh light of public scrutiny. While these cases are undeniably horrifying, they’ve also illuminated a crucial turning point – a growing focus on holding male perpetrators accountable for their actions.
The rallying cries of “I believe you, sister” and ”Let shame change sides” have resonated deeply, reflecting the feminist movement’s determination to shift the narrative.no longer are survivors expected to shoulder the burden of silence; instead, the onus is on male perpetrators to confront their actions and the societal structures that enable them.
This shift is more than just rhetoric. as Isabel muntané, journalist and gender expert, points out, the legal consequences must be matched by social consequences. Allowing convicted individuals like Saül Gordillo to maintain public platforms undermines the severity of their crimes and sends a dangerous message.
Muntané argues that perpetrators need to feel the full weight of societal condemnation, going beyond legal repercussions.Alba F. Pous, director of Barcelona’s Plural masculinities Centre, echoes this sentiment, emphasizing the need for social recognition and support for survivors.
Plural’s work with men seeking to dismantle toxic masculinity is a promising sign. Their feminist-centered approach underscores that change starts with personal obligation and rejects the harmful narrative of men as victims of patriarchy.
However, a critical question remains: why aren’t more men actively challenging and preventing violence against women? Sociologist Paco Abril, a gender and masculinities expert, identifies a key driver of sexist aggression – the desire for power and control over women.
2024 has undeniably been a year of reckoning.
But the fight is far from over.
The resounding message is clear: we must continue shifting the blame – holding perpetrators accountable, dismantling the structures that enable violence, and fostering a culture where “Let shame change sides” is not just a slogan but a lived reality.
This demands a multi-pronged approach – legal consequences, social ostracization, educational programs, and a collective commitment to challenge sexist attitudes and behaviors. Only then can we hope to create a future free from gender-based violence.
